I'm Frengkie Budiman. I have undergone 2 MAJOR SURGERIES at Royal Perth Hospital, Perth, Western Australia, on September 10, 2023 and July 10, 2024. I am DISABLED with the following conditions:

1. COLON RECTAL CANCER NEAR THE RECTAL RECTUM and LUNGS There is a TUMOR . 

2. Operation July 10, 2024 Remove the TUMOR in the LARGE COLON and reconnect rejoin the LARGE COLON and have STOMA BAG on my STOMACH TUMMY. I DEFECATE through a STOMA BAG on my STOMACH in where the SMALL INTESTINE comes out of the my STOMACH. 

3. Operation September 10, 2023 My TAILBONE IS  BROKEN. SPINE INJURY. The doctor installed metal plates on the left and right sides to hold my spine. I URINATE using a CATHETER every 4 hours 6 times a day. 

4. My RIGHT HAND in the palm, fingers and arms are STIFF and LIMITED MOVEMENT and SWELLING and left and right LEGS are SWELLING. 

5. CHEMOTHERAPY for 6 months. Every 2 weeks at Royal Perth hospital. Australia. 

6. I AM A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, NEGATIVE WORDS ABUSE,  INSULTING,  HARASSMENT, and  BULLYING from my Wife and Mother-in-law. My LIFE IS VERY STRESSED UNDER PRESSURE. I paid a DEPOSIT TO BUY MY HOUSE AUD $ 80,000 AND I paid AUD $ 77,000 PERMANENT RESIDENTS AUSTRALIA my mother-in-law and father-in-law. 

7. After the SURGERY on September 10, 2023 I BUY FOOD BY BUS, COOK and TAKE CARE OF MYSELF. My wife doesn't want to spend money to buy food for me. My wife and mother-in-law don't want to help me. NO ONE helps me. I CAN'T REST. Every day I AM VERY BUSY DEFECATE EMPTY AND CLEAN MY STOMA BAG AND URINATE WITH A CATHETER. I CAN'T REST. 

8. I want to LIVE SEPARATELY from my wife and mother-in-law. I am DISABLED. I want to live in a NURSING HOME for my BODY, MIND, and SOUL RECOVERY. Above all, I love and want to see my CHILDREN GROW UP. 

9. Problem my body weight going down. December 2023 at Fiona Stanley hospital my weight is 58 kg. Now my body weight is 42 kg. Doctor said I must eat more food ingredients protein.

10. Please HELP me. SAVE my LIFE. I ask for your prayers and support to raise awareness about domestic violence. If you would like to donate, I have also created a GoFundMe to help with my living expenses and to help me get out of my home and into a nursing home.

My GoFundMe website https://gofund.me/6b852bdf

Thank you so much for listening to my story and donating to me. It means a lot to me. I really appreciate your kindness and generosity. May God bless you and your family every day, always healthy, many blessings and long life.

My true story website https://8gofundme.blogspot.com.
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Warm regards
Frengkie Budiman
My mobile phone number WhatsApp is +61434265909. Thank you very much. 


I ask for your prayers and support to raise awareness of domestic violence. If you would like to give donations, I have also created a GoFundMe to help with my living expenses and help me get out of the house and live in a nursing home.


Please save my life. I don't want to live with my wife and my mother-in-law anymore. I need a bed for my body, mind and soul to recover. I need someone who can help me to urinate and defecate. I am vegetarian eat vegetables foods that are easy to chew Because my teeth are missing. 

My GoFundMe website https://gofund.me/fbe6ca1f


Thank you  very much for reading my story and give donations to me. I really appreciate your kindness and generosity. God bless you and your family always healthy every day, Many abundant fortune every day  and long life. 


My website https://8gofundme.blogspot.com. 


My website https://expired-bread.blogspot.com


Best regards 

Frengkie Budiman 

 My mobile phone number WhatsApp  is  +61434265909. Thank you very much 


Photo since September 21, 2024. my right hand palm, finger and arm STIFF and LIMITED MOVING and SWOLLEN. Until now  my right hand palm, finger and arm STIFF and LIMITED MOVING. 



Photo i was at Armadale hospital since September 21 , 2024 until now. 







Hello I am Frengkie Budiman mobile +61434265909. I have CANCER COLON RECTAL and LUNG. I URINATE use CATHETER for EVERY 4 HOURS 6 TIMES A DAY. I DEFECATE from POUCH (BAG ) on my STOMACH and that have SMALL INTESTINE OUT from my STOMACH. 


Photo my Centerlink medical certificate at 21 August 2024 from doctor oncology Dr Timothy Humphries at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia. 



30 July 2024 I sign up letter of my Chemotherapy at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia. 


Photo my letter of chemotherapy at 30 July 2024 from doctor oncology Dr Timothy Humphries at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia. 






Photo on my STOMACH there is a red object, that is the SMALL INTESTINE coming out of the STOMACH for defecation. 


Photo my stoma bag on my STOMACH have small intestine inside for defecate. Many times defecate every day. 



Photo my stoma pouch (bag) that I use on my STOMACH that SMALL INTESTINE COME OUT from my STOMACH. 


Video SMALL INTESTINE coming out of the STOMACH for defecation.


Video my stoma bag on my STOMACH have small intestine inside for defecate. Many times defecate every day. 


Photo I was at 10 July 2024 at the Royal Perth Hospital in the Perth City of Perth Western Australia I had surgery for 6 hours to remove a 2 cm tumor in my LARGE INTESTINE and had my LARGE INTESTINE RECONNECTED AGAIN and a POUCH was placed in my STOMACH which had my SMALL INTESTINE is OUT FROM MY TUMMY. I defecated (POO)  through a POUCH (BAG) on  my STOMACH where my SMALL INTESTINE is  out from MY STOMACH.

I still have a 7 mm TUMOUR in my LUNG. I have COLON CANCER and LUNG CANCER.


Brown pouch in my stomach inside There is SMALL INTESTINE coming out of the STOMACH. Every 2 days I change a new bag in my stomach. 

Video I was at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia after 10 July 2024 I had surgery for 6 hours to remove a 2 cm tumor in my LARGE INTESTINE and had my LARGE INTESTINAL RECONNECTED AGAIN and a POUCH was placed in my TUMMY which had my SMALL INTESTINAL is OUT FROM MY TUMMY. I defecated (POO)  through a POUCH in my TUMMY where my SMALL INTESTINE is  out from MY TUMMY.


Photo I was at Armadale hospital. 12 August 2024 doctor put in PICC line (Peripherally Inserted Central Catheter) in my left hand for infusion of chemotherapy for 6 months. 



Photo PICC line (Peripherally Inserted Central Catheter) in my left hand for infusion of chemotherapy for 6 months. 


Photo Results my MRI test page 1


Photo Results my MRI test page 2


Photo my CT scan results at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia. 


Photo my CT scan results at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia. 


September 10, 2023 at the Royal Perth Hospital in the City of Perth in Western Australia I had surgery for MY BROKEN TAILBONE. SPINE CORD INJURIES. INSTALL IRON PLATES on the left and right to hold my spine. My bladder nervous injury. I cannot urinate normally. I URINATE WITH A CATHETER for EVERY 4 HOURS 6 TIMES A DAY. Early morning i wake up TWICE for URINATE use CATHETER. I have spinal cord injury. My back body that surgery pain if I standing too long or I sit down too long. My right leg every time tingling. 

Photo my X-ray result at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia. I had operation surgery 10 September 2023. 



Photo my back body that surgery at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia on 10 September 2023. 



6 September 2023 night l sick my leg swallow. My heel pain feel burning. Area around back bone swallow and pain feel burning. My wife not bring me to hospital. 
7 September 2023 night I sleep in my car Mazda 323 made in 1991. 

Photo my car Mazda 323 made in 1991. 


8 September 2023 my church friend a couple old people ages 80 years old bring me to Armadale Hospital. My wife not bring me to hospital. 

5 October 2023 my wife meet me at Royal Perth hospital and gave me expired bread 1 September 2023. My wife don't want spend money to buy new bread. Website https://expired-bread.blogspot.com 

Photo expired bread September 1, 2023 that my wife gave to me at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City at Western Australia on October 5, 2023. 



Video expired bread September 1, 2023 that my wife gave to me at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City at Western Australia on October 5, 2023. 


Video expired bread September 1, 2023 that my wife gave to me at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City at Western Australia on October 5, 2023. 


I am Frengkie Budiman 55 year old  and I am facing the toughest battle of my life.

I have been abused for over 12 years by my wife and mother-in-law (MIL).

I constantly received verbal abuse and harassment, which caused my mental condition to worsen. When hurt and mentally abused. This ultimately took its toll on me as I have now been diagnosed with Colon and Lung Cancer.

I am forced to do physical work at home despite having just had major surgery on my broken tailbone (spinal cord injury) last September (i.e. my Mother-in-Law forced me to clean the toilet after my surgery), and if I go against it, I will be bombarded again with insults and verbal abuse that my brain can no longer accept.

I wish I could fight back or fight back but I can't because I have been mentally hurt since day one and my mind has been damaged forever from receiving daily verbal abuse from them especially in front of 2 sweet boys. Sometimes I think even dogs or cats are treated so much better than me.

Now I have been diagnosed with lung and colon cancer and I really need your support.

I had nothing left – no house, no possessions, and no financial security.

My body and mind have been damaged by constant abuse and harassment :

1. I had surgery for a BROKEN TAIL BONE (SPINAL CORD INJURY) on September 10, 2023.

2. I CANNOT URINATE NORMALLY - I have to use a CATHETER tube through my penis EVERY 4 HOURS 6 TIMES A DAY to drain the fluid.

3. Because of my COLON CANCER, the doctor had to cut my colon and put it back together. I now DEFECATE through a STOMAL POUCH in my STOMACH that is my SMALL INTESTINE OUT from my STOMACH for DEFECATE.

4. I also have LUNG CANCER. 

5. And the worst - my 2 boys who have been told by their mother and grandmother about how bad or useless I am as their father.

Despite these challenges, I remain determined to fight for my health and future to accompany my two sons.

I can't do it alone. I need your help to cover the costs of medical care, living expenses, and rebuilding my life. 


Your donation will go directly to:

- Cancer treatments and medical bills.

- Rent and utilities for a safe place to live.

- Food and basic necessities.

- Legal fees to protect myself from further harassment.


Any contribution, big or small, could you please can make via the GoFundMe  site https://gofund.me/f512d5c7, will give me hope and help me get back on my feet. Your kindness and support means a lot to me.


Thank you so much for taking the time to read my story. Please share this page https://7gofundme.blogspot.com with your loved ones and friends and let's fight cancer and abuse together.

If you would like to come to see me to see the POUCH (BAG) on my STOMACH  which is the SMALL INTESTINE OUT of MY STOMACH, could you please call or SMS first to Frengkie Budiman's mobile number +61434265909. Thank you very much.